I've spent most of the weekend thinking about the possibility of moving back to NYC. Part of me says "do it - life would be so much more happier," and the other half says "you're not 21 anymore, stop moving around and start being a grown-up." Although I am slightly horrified at the thought of classroom management for a city/school system that doesn't really support it, the decision isn't really about teaching. It's all about life style.
Can I afford to buy an apartment in the city? No. In fact, I could barely afford to rent an apartment on my own... plus there's all those grown up things to worry about, like retirement; caring for my parents; being close to family. Then again, do I really want to live in an area with little to no diversity and all the positive aspects that come with it? What about friends? Sadly, even after 3 years, most live in NY... Washingtonians are friendly, but not all that warm.
It doesn't help that my family reacted to the news with serious reservation or that my best friend has already found me an apartment (quite a steal) and is planning our summer together. So far, I've managed to whine and harp on this quandry until everyone has wanted to strangle me.
There's was a time when I was actually happy with where I lived and my job - at the same time. But going backwards is not only silly, it's impossible. Maybe I am insane.
Can I afford to buy an apartment in the city? No. In fact, I could barely afford to rent an apartment on my own... plus there's all those grown up things to worry about, like retirement; caring for my parents; being close to family. Then again, do I really want to live in an area with little to no diversity and all the positive aspects that come with it? What about friends? Sadly, even after 3 years, most live in NY... Washingtonians are friendly, but not all that warm.
It doesn't help that my family reacted to the news with serious reservation or that my best friend has already found me an apartment (quite a steal) and is planning our summer together. So far, I've managed to whine and harp on this quandry until everyone has wanted to strangle me.
There's was a time when I was actually happy with where I lived and my job - at the same time. But going backwards is not only silly, it's impossible. Maybe I am insane.
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I say jump in with both feet. Take this opportunity to enjoy all that New York has to offer. If you don't you'll kick yourself down the road.
PFSD